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My name is Barry and I am an Asian-Canadian living in New York. I fell in love with traveling the first time I flew to Hong Kong when I was a kid, and since then I have been exploring new destinations each year. Read more…

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Gay traveler, writer, host & creator
Quit 9-5 to travel the world w/ @teraj08 ❤️👨🏿‍🤝‍👨🏻🌎
Inspiring discovery through our love of travel ✈️

We saw this on Instagram and couldn’t resist…

We saw this on Instagram and couldn’t resist… but of course, we had to do it our way. 💁‍♂️💃🌈 LOL Last year, during our around-the-world trip, we visited Bali and the famous rice terraces with the swings I’d always seen on social media. At first, we just walked through the terraces and even hopped back in the car to head back to the hotel. But mid-ride, Teraj and I couldn’t stop thinking: Should we have done the swing? We were right there! So we asked the driver to turn around. There are so many swing options in that area, but we chose one without a line in a quieter spot—and it was the best decision ever. The swing was run by a sweet and super-friendly Indonesian family who completely understood the assignment (and honestly, exceeded it). They were so excited to help us bring our vision to life, cheering us on, dressing us up, and making us feel right at home. Their warmth and joy made the whole experience even more special, reminding us how universal kindness and connection can be. Every time I see this video, I can’t help but smile. It’s such a reminder that sometimes travel is about trying new things—and other times, it’s about owning the moment and making it unforgettable. 📍 Bali #bali #baliindonesia #travelblogger #CoupleGoals #LGBTQTravel #TravelWithStyle #BaliVibes #RomanticGetaway #funny #couples #relatable #couplecomedy #gaytravel #intergaycial

Miami Art Week, where art meets adventure, is happ

Miami Art Week, where art meets adventure, is happening right now! 🎨✨ From strolling alongside giant wooden elephants on South Beach 🐘 to exploring the vibrant @UntitledArtFairs, every moment was a masterpiece. And let’s talk about our ride—testing out the sleek, all-new 2025 @Infinitiusa QX60 and QX80 🚘💨 was pure luxury in motion. A car as stylish as the art itself, perfect for cruising Miami’s palm-lined streets and soaking in all the creativity. Swipe through for all the Miami vibes and let me know what you liked best. Carousel Highlights:
1️⃣ ‘The Great Elephant Migration’ found on Miami Beach between 36th & 37th St
2️⃣ It’s a breathtaking herd of 100 life-size wooden elephant sculptures🐘
3️⃣ Day out in our Infiniti QX60 & QX80: Spacious, sleek, and equipped with massage seats. Travel goals, unlocked! 🚘💆🏽‍♂️
4️⃣ Teraj and I at the Untitled Art Fair with @infinitiusa
5️⃣ Featuring 176 exhibitors on the beach at 12th Street: A vibrant, creative hub for art enthusiasts. 🎨
6️⃣ ‘Art of the Senses’ by @amormunozm: An incredible sensory experience blending art and innovation in collaboration with Infiniti. ✨
7️⃣ Sunrise at The Miami Beach EDITION: Nothing beats golden light and ocean views to kick off a day of exploring. 🌅
8️⃣ Driving at the Montgomery Botanical Center: Lush greenery and serene vibes—the perfect escape. 🌿 #MiamiArtWeek #UntitledArt #untitledartfair #infiniti #LuxuryInMotion #ArtInMotion #miami #miamibeach #artweek #miamiart #infinitiQX80 #infinitiQX60 #gaycouples #miamicontentcreator

I’ve partnered with @liquidiv to share how essen

I’ve partnered with @liquidiv to share how essential it is for my travels! On our recent trip around the world—36 countries and nearly 60 flights!—I quickly realized how dehydrating air travel can be. Also, early mornings were sometimes difficult for me as I’d often feel anxious the night before, struggling to fall asleep and worrying about waking up exhausted even before taking off. That’s why I started packing Liquid I.V. Hydration Multiplier® +Energy as part of my travel essentials. It kept me hydrated and gave me that energy boost I needed to tackle each day. For anyone who’s always on the move (or dreads those early flights), trust me—this makes a world of difference. 💼💧✈️ Let me know what you think!

#LiquidIVPartner #TravelEssentials #StayFueled #liquidiv #packingtips #travelsmart #travelhack #traveladvice #stayhydrated

Happy 9 years to my forever love, my greatest adve

Happy 9 years to my forever love, my greatest adventure.
❤️❤️❤️ #happyanniversary #loveislove #couples #gaycouple #intergaycial #love

Coming out is a personal journey of self-discovery

Coming out is a personal journey of self-discovery, courage, and living authentically. Today, I’m out and proud, but it wasn’t always this way. There was a time when I was terrified of people finding out, feeling like I had to live behind a fake persona. I was so scared and stressed each time I had to tell someone, and I had to go through that process over and over. But with every step, it got easier, and I’m so much happier because of it. Whether you’re out, on your way, or supporting someone, today we celebrate the power of sharing your truth. Happy #NationalComingOutDay 🌈❤️ #nationalcomingoutday🌈 #comingout #comingoutday #outandproud #gayandproud #gay #itgetsbetter #gaysian #intergaycial #gaycouple #gaylove

You know what they say, everything’s bigger in T

You know what they say, everything’s bigger in Texas! 🎡🤠 From trying wild fair food like cotton candy bacon (definitely interesting) to the surprisingly tasty hot cheetos Korean corn dog, and our favorite—the deep-fried Reese’s ’n Cream, Texas knows how to go big! We spent the day exploring the one and only State Fair of Texas (@statefairoftx), and it lived up to all that I imagined. After all the fun at the fair, we explored the Dallas Arboretum decked out in pumpkins, sailed on a sunset catamaran that made us feel miles from the city, enjoyed cocktails by a romantic rooftop pool, and of course we couldn’t miss a night of line dancing at a local gay club! 🕺🕺🏾 Dallas was more than I ever expected. Have you been or are you planning to go?! @visit_dallas #VisitDallas #dallastaxas #gaytravel #StateFairOfTexas #fairfood #dallas #texas #gaycouple #EverythingIsBigger #LGBTQTravel

Searching for a romantic, off-the-beaten-path dest

Searching for a romantic, off-the-beaten-path destination in Europe? 💫 Search no more - Teraj and I were completely taken aback by the unexpected beauty and charm of the Baltics. We didn’t know what to expect, but each city was a delightful surprise—from wandering Tallinn’s medieval streets to marveling at Riga’s Art Nouveau gems, and soaking up the vibrant energy of Vilnius. The Baltics are full of hidden treasures waiting to be explored! Come with us and @intrepidtravel on this unforgettable #OnlyIntrepid journey! 🌍✨ Ready to fall in love with Europe’s best-kept secret? Let’s go! #IntrepidTravel #baltic #estonia #latvia #Lithuania #VisitTheBaltics #RomanticEscape #TravelWithLove #coupletravel #gaytravel #lgbtqiatravel #gaycouple #grouptravel #travelinspiration

Celebrating my incredible dad on his 80th birthday

Celebrating my incredible dad on his 80th birthday today—a man who immigrated to Canada over 50 years ago with nothing but determination and a dream. Through hard work and dedication, he built a life for our family, raising me and my two brothers so that we can live the lives we have today. A couple of weeks ago, we were able to surprise him with a celebration on our annual family trip, a moment I’ll cherish forever. Now, as he continues his battle with cancer, his courage and resilience shine brighter than ever. I’m grateful for every moment, every lesson, and the legacy of love he continues to share. #80thbirthday #dadsbirthday #family #familylife #intergaycial #gaycouple

This is 45! 🥳 I sure don’t feel like I’m i

This is 45! 🥳 I sure don’t feel like I’m in my 40s, nor do I act like it – just ask @teraj08, who calls me ‘man child’ all the time! Swipe over to see me as a child, all young and full of collagen haha. Anyway, I’m living proof you’re never too old to be fabulous! I’m grateful for my health, amazing friends and family, and my loving partner. And of course, for all of you for following along on my life’s journey. Cheers to another year of staying young at heart! #birthday #over40andfabulous #itsmybirthday #youngatheart #gaysian #gaycouple #loveislove

OMG, we made it onto a billboard in Times Square!!

OMG, we made it onto a billboard in Times Square!! 😱🗽 I moved to NYC 9 years ago and used to walk through Times Square daily on my way to work… I never imagined I would one day see myself on one of those iconic billboards. Seeing a gay interracial couple sharing their love, like any other couple, was a surreal and deeply touching moment. And to top it off, it was us! What?! 👀 One of my driving passions is to represent and normalize LGBTQ+ love and relationships, whether boldly on a big screen like this or more subtly through social media. It is so amazing that this was viewed by hundreds of thousands of visitors to Times Square each day, displayed continuously 24/7 for over a month. This kind of visibility is huge—hopefully it helps challenge stereotypes, promote acceptance, and show countless people that love is love, regardless of gender or race. Thank you, @visitwashingtondc, for sharing and taking a bold stand on inclusivity. Your support helps change lives and perceptions, making a real difference. 📸 @connaynay
#timessquare #nyc #newyork #lgbtq #gaycouple #interracialcouple #gaylove #loveislove #diversity #blasiancouple #asianrepresentation #ExperienceDC #Only1DC

One year ago, I quit my corporate banking job, and

One year ago, I quit my corporate banking job, and Teraj and I embarked on an adventure around the world to celebrate my retirement and our engagement. ✈️ How did I do it? I’ve always been a saver, valuing experiences over expensive material things. I also invested my money to generate passive income, which I believe is the best income. I delved into the Financial Independence, Retire Early (FIRE) movement and knew it was what I wanted. I didn’t want to wait until my 60s to enjoy life, so I decided to start enjoying it NOW! For this trip, we traveled for over 200 days spending $34K each, which covered flights, accommodations, and activities. Most of the trip was funded out of pocket, but we used points for some flights. We also collaborated with a few hotels and a tour company. I opened three reward credit cards to use the welcome bonus points for free stays and to achieve elite status at both Hilton (Diamond) and Marriott (Platinum), which provided free room upgrades and breakfast, significantly helping our food budget. Did you know if you book four nights with points, you get the fifth night free?!? We did this and stayed for free in the Maldives and Rio over new years (both normally ~$1k a night). Through planning and a willingness to take risks, I made my dream come true, and so can you. Thank you for your support and for following our journey. We’re so grateful for you all. ❤️ Let us know where you want to see us go next 🙂 #travel #aroundtheworld #worldtraveler #traveltips #gaytravel #retireearly #firemovement #9tothrive #retirementplanning #travelblogger #rewardpoints #travelbudget

From the red carpet to the rainbow carpet, we can

From the red carpet to the rainbow carpet, we can do it all! 🙌❤️ It may not look like it, but at these events, I often struggle with imposter syndrome. I rarely feel like I belong or that I am as worthy of the stage, the carpet, or the space as everyone else. I often put myself at the bottom of the list, attributing everything I experience or achieve to luck or random chance. Starting this Pride Month, I will see myself more as Teraj sees me—with love and an unstoppable light that shines brightly. I belong just like everyone else, and I hope you will continue to follow me on my journey, wherever it may lead. And if you feel the same way, know that you are not alone. Now, let’s celebrate Pride with joy, love, and a touch of fabulousness! We are here to celebrate LGBTQ+ excellence! 🌈 🌈 @criticschoice Celebration of LGBTQ+ Cinema & TV
📍 @fairmontcenturyplaza
#criticschoiceawards #fairmontmoments #gaycouple #pride #pridemonth #rainbow #selflove #redcarpet #intergaycial #gaysian

Come with us and escape to Provincetown 🏳️‍

Come with us and escape to Provincetown 🏳️‍🌈✨ Our couple’s weekend getaway was nothing short of magical! It’s Pride Month, but PTown celebrates Pride year-round as it’s a gay paradise with so many things to do and see. Here are a few recommendations, as shown in my reel:
⁃ Walk out the PTown Causeway for the best views
⁃ See the beautiful sand dunes with @artsdunetours
⁃ Rent a bike for a scenic cruise through town
⁃ Enjoy one of the many cute cafes while taking in the vibrant street art
⁃ Visit the Provincetown Public Library (and the Rose Dorothea Schooner) @provincetownlib
⁃ Go to the tea dance @boatslipresort
⁃ Check out a fabulous drag show On top of all that, the ferry ride to PTown is a fun and scenic adventure in itself. PTown is super easy to get to from NYC (or Miami)—just hop on a train or fly to Boston and enjoy the short ferry ride to the Cape. Leave a comment and let us know your favourite thing to do while in Ptown.
@ptowntourism #Ptown #PtownPride #MyPtown #Provincetown #CouplesGetaway #WeekendAdventure #LGBTQIA #TravelGoals #BucketList

Happy Pride Month!! ❤️🌈 We are here celebr

Happy Pride Month!! ❤️🌈 We are here celebrating love, diversity, and the beautiful spectrum of identities during Pride Month and throughout the year. We do what we do to show everyone that love is possible and that being gay is nothing less than fabulous! I grew up wishing I was more like everyone else, but now I celebrate being different. I wouldn’t have it any other way because I am living my best life, and I hope you are too. ❤️ To those who may need a reminder: you are perfect just the way you are. Embrace your uniqueness, don’t let others dull your shine, and know that you are never alone. Together, we stand proud, united, and unstoppable. #Pride2024 #LoveWins #pride #happypride #loveislove #pridemonth

Happy Birthday, @teraj08 ! 🎉 I love you and can

Happy Birthday, @teraj08 ! 🎉 I love you and can’t imagine anyone else I’d rather travel the world with. ❤️ You’re always up for an adventure, and I’m so grateful you dropped everything without hesitation so I could live out my dream trip. I’m a better version of myself because of you, and I wish you the happiest birthday ever. I can’t wait to see what new adventures life brings us! 🙌 Also, I can’t wait for you to join me in the 40s club! Hehe. #gettingold 😂 Please send him some love on this special day, he deserves it! ❤️ #barryandteraj✈️🌎 #birthday #happybirthday #gaytravel #gaylove #intergaycial #travelcouple #couplegoals #loveislove #lovefirst

#Ad A Taste of Home, Sponsored by Tim Hortons 🍁

#Ad A Taste of Home, Sponsored by Tim Hortons 🍁 You may know I’m obsessed with coffee, and I am, at times, annoyingly Canadian. What better way to bring both together than to follow me on my morning routine from when I get out of bed, to brewing my cup of Tims and sharing it with Teraj. Joking aside, living in the US, my morning ritual with @timhortonsus coffee is a sweet reminder of my Canadian roots. With each sip, memories of my friends, family, and the moments from my time back in Canada flood back. It’s more than just a drink; it’s a taste of home. Home is never far with a cup of Tims! Coffee tip: For my favorite cup, I like to stir in a bit of condensed milk in place of milk and sugar. Try it and let me know what you think! Fun fact: Tim Hortons started in Canada 60 years ago, and there are almost 600 coffee shops in the US. Additionally, you can buy Tims in over 10,000 grocery stores, making it super easy to brew your own cup at home. #timhortons #timhortonsus #timscoffee #coffee #coffeelover

Hello Hong Kong!! Not only is my family from Hong

Hello Hong Kong!! Not only is my family from Hong Kong, but the city itself has ignited my passion for travel, inspiring me to explore the globe. Each time I return, it feels like a homecoming. With its plethora of activities and attractions, Hong Kong never fails to captivate me. Here are some highlights and recommendations for your visit. Take a look and let me know if you agree or let me know what your favourite spots are in the city This time we were fortunate enough to visit twice in less than 6 months and were able to stay for 2 full months. Since we were staying for so long we opted for a longer stay serviced suite at the @harbourgrandhongkong - it was perfect for us. @teraj08 and I cannot wait to make this our annual tradition! #ilovehongkong #hongkong #discoverhongkong #harbourgrandhongkong #hk #香港 #香港景點 #香港好去處 @discoverhongkong #hongkongtravel #travelblogger #gaytravel #gaycouple #travelbucketlist

Happy Valentine’s Day, @teraj08! 💕👨🏿‍

Happy Valentine’s Day, @teraj08! 💕👨🏿‍🤝‍👨🏻👨🏿‍❤️‍👨🏻 Thank you for supporting my passion for travel and making my dream of an around-the-world trip come true. I still cannot believe WE made it happen!!! It was truly an epic journey, but made extra special because you were there with me, creating forever memories together. I cannot wait for our next adventure. Happy Valentine’s Day to my IG fam as well. ❤️❤️❤️ I am grateful for those who followed along with our travels and our journey together. I appreciate each and every one of you, and I wish you all the love, whether it’s self-love, couple love, or love for friends. #happyvalentinesday #valentines #love #loveislove #intergaycial #celebratelove #lovewins #couplegoals #gaylove #gaycouple #couples #lovestory #flytographer

I’m BACK! lol. Well, at least back to posting a

I’m BACK! lol. Well, at least back to posting about our trip after I took a brief break to fully savor our around-the-world adventure! ✈️ Last year, we ventured to the Maldives for the first time and indulged in an unforgettable floating breakfast in our infinity pool at our overwater villa overlooking the ocean. It had always been a dream of mine after seeing all the pictures on social media. If you were wondering, no, we did not actually eat it in the pool. Eww! We took it out and ate by the pool because ain’t nobody want pool water in our food. Haha 🤣 Our stay at the @jwmmaldives, booked through @marriottbonvoy points, was delightful. Tip: If you book 4 nights with Bonvoy points, you get the 5th night free. You also receive a bunch of welcome points from signing up for both the personal and business @americanexpress Bonvoy credit cards, along with free breakfast with status. #BarryAndTeraj✈️🌎 #maldives #maldivesislands #maldivesresorts #jwmmaldives #traveltips #gaytravel #lgbtqtravel #gaycouple #gayasia #gaypride #intergaycial #gaylove

2023 has been life-changing for me, surpassing any

2023 has been life-changing for me, surpassing anything I could have imagined. I left my finance job after over 20 years in the industry, packed my bags, and traveled to over 30 countries. I’m immensely grateful for this opportunity and for @teraj08, who supported my travel dreams. ❤️ Throughout the year, numerous special moments occurred, making it challenging to select just one per month. However, here are a few I randomly picked:
▪️Jan: New York, right after New Year’s
▪️Feb: Thailand with @oneikaraymond
▪️Mar: Quality family time
▪️Apr: Wore rainbow wigs for GPL Wigstock
▪️May: Celebrated my parents’ 50th anniversary
▪️Jun: Loved in Capital Pride in DC @visitwashingtondc
▪️Jul: Explored Iceland
▪️Aug: Visited Amsterdam
▪️Sep: Experienced Petra
▪️Oct: Hong Kong with @d3nniskong and @ddivineblackk
▪️Nov: Enjoyed a private island in Indonesia
▪️Dec: Witnessed Iguazu Falls I’m also truly grateful to all of you who followed our journey. Xoxo. Happy new year! 🎉🙌🥂 #2023 #yearinreview #happynewyear #traveltheworld #quitmyjobtotravel #firemovement #inspirational #gaytravel #gaycouplegoals #machupicchu #machupicchuperu #dreamscometrue #travelaroundtheworld

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